Argh. My lack of social skills annoys me. I cannot seem to get it right. We have clients here today, and one of them looks at me point blank and asks, "Are you doing any projects in SE Asia?" So, my dumb social brain derps this as a direct question to me, and I derp back, "No, I work in R&D." As soon as those words left my mouth I realized that she wasn't talking about me personally. I mean, why would she? My boss hopped in immediately and answered the real question, but I'm sitting there stupid embarrassed. Now, I know I'm the only one thinking about this at that point, but that's because it's yet another in a series of social failures.
One thing--I'm looking at you Tumblr--I am NOT going to do is run away and hide behind introversion as a shield. Introversion is an explanation, not an excuse. I still need these skills. I need to exercise them like any other weak muscle until I get it right. I just completely blank on what to say next at conversation time.