not so serious but I want to rant II: Redemption

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Yeah...I"m not sure if she feels bad for Vagabond or if she's comforting herself during a nasty yeast infection.

I'm so sorry I typed that. I did it anyway, but I want you all to know how bad I feel about it.
 
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Yeah...I"m not sure if she feels bad for Vagabond or if she's comforting herself during a nasty yeast infection.

I'm so sorry I typed that. I did it anyway, but I want you all to know how bad I feel about it.
Whatever, Krisken.
 
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I have complete faith that he knows who im talking about. As does dave but he is a sucker for a cheap joke.
 
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Ok this is kind of interesting but im still going to rant about it.

There is this guy in my class, Rick, that is one of those pompous, full of himself overly macho guys. When we are alone, and sometimes in his presence. we females in the class get a good laugh at Rick's expense. So I was surprised to hear that my friend was talking to another guy in class about Rick and she said that she wasn't into him or anything like that and the guy was shocked.. I mean shocked. He said, "but Rick's the guy that all the women want!"

He is? We do? What the hell universe is that guy in? But I really think this is just an example of how different guys and chicks see the world. The guys look at this macho guy and think hey he's pretty cool I BET all the women want him. Dont get me wrong Rick is nice enough and he is fun at parties but the only women I know who have had anything to do with him romantically have been drunk* and the next day nearly face palmed themselves into a coma.
*which is my theory as to why he is often at parties where women are likely to get drunk >.>

Im just aggravated. THAT is what guys think women want? Really. Gah. And my friend, the same as above, is really having problems because she likes this guy Kurt who IS what women want you know nice, decent, polite, friendly etc. But he won't have anything to do with her because Rick has like laid claim to her and a bunch of other girls in the class. Cant go against him.. I mean the women WANT him soooo bad.

I could just throw up.
 
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I just watched excerpted clips from an E.T. Porno.

I'm pretty sure 2g1c was just dethroned as the worst thing ever. And it was entirely safe for work.

Jesus. I just.

I need to go find a suicide booth now.
 
You might be laughing at this guy Rick, but maybe the dudes are misreading it as the wimmens laughing with Rick? The fact that he is apparently charming enough to get laid with women who normally wouldn't bother (even if drunk) probably only reinforces that.

Also, guys may be thinking "damn, dude is raw, the lay-days love him," but they could also be thinking "why do the girls go for jerks like Rick?"

Also, Kurt sounds like a punk.
 
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You might be laughing at this guy Rick, but maybe the dudes are misreading it as the wimmens laughing with Rick? The fact that he is apparently charming enough to get laid with women who normally wouldn't bother (even if drunk) probably only reinforces that.

Also, guys may be thinking "damn, dude is raw, the lay-days love him," but they could also be thinking "why do the girls go for jerks like Rick?"

Also, Kurt sounds like a punk.
I dont know what you mean though. The girls dont go for Rick. It doesnt say anything positive to me that the only time the guy gets lucky is when the chicks around him are drunk.

Kurt is awesome. I would happily date Kurt but, stupid friendship politics, I couldnt because my friend IS actually interested in him. I know because she told me so. So thats that. Also I think he has started seriously dating a chick who is not in our school.
 
Ok this is kind of interesting but im still going to rant about it.

There is this guy in my class, Rick, that is one of those pompous, full of himself overly macho guys. When we are alone, and sometimes in his presence. we females in the class get a good laugh at Rick's expense. So I was surprised to hear that my friend was talking to another guy in class about Rick and she said that she wasn't into him or anything like that and the guy was shocked.. I mean shocked. He said, "but Rick's the guy that all the women want!"

He is? We do? What the hell universe is that guy in? But I really think this is just an example of how different guys and chicks see the world. The guys look at this macho guy and think hey he's pretty cool I BET all the women want him. Dont get me wrong Rick is nice enough and he is fun at parties but the only women I know who have had anything to do with him romantically have been drunk* and the next day nearly face palmed themselves into a coma.
*which is my theory as to why he is often at parties where women are likely to get drunk >.>

Im just aggravated. THAT is what guys think women want? Really. Gah. And my friend, the same as above, is really having problems because she likes this guy Kurt who IS what women want you know nice, decent, polite, friendly etc. But he won't have anything to do with her because Rick has like laid claim to her and a bunch of other girls in the class. Cant go against him.. I mean the women WANT him soooo bad.

I could just throw up.
In defence of guys, as a relatively nice guy myself (I think.), I have the self-confidence that I'm worth dating, and even if there was some guy who impressed me (and guys like Rick usually don't) as being 'what women want', it certainly wouldn't prevent me from pursuing a girl. I mean, is there someone out there 'better' than me? Sure, but what does that even mean? So I don't think all guys see things that way.
 
I dont know what you mean though. The girls dont go for Rick. It doesnt say anything positive to me that the only time the guy gets lucky is when the chicks around him are drunk.

Kurt is awesome. I would happily date Kurt but, stupid friendship politics, I couldnt because my friend IS actually interested in him. I know because she told me so. So thats that. Also I think he has started seriously dating a chick who is not in our school.
Girls don't generally sleep with guys they don't like. Rick is getting laid. If someone is sharing her lady-bits with a dude, I don't think it's unreasonable to assume she likes the guy. Now I am not stating that Rick is actually desirable, just that other guys know Rick is getting laid and so adjust their perceptions accordingly.

Re Kurt, your rant made it sound like he's turning down your friend because Rick "staked a claim." Were that assumption true, it doesn't really matter how nice or awesome Kurt is, he'd still be a punkass. Disinterest because he's already dating someone else is quite a different matter.
 
I'm ignoring the fact that he might be dating someone..

Kurt is awesome. I would happily date Kurt but, stupid friendship politics, I couldnt because my friend IS actually interested in him. I know because she told me so. So thats that.
Wait. So just because she happened to have "staked a claim" first, she gets to go for him instead of you? Is she even actively trying to pursue that fantasy or is it just words to make sure no one else i her friend circle can try by simply saying "dibs!"?
I didn't even catch that. Nice one, Ame :D.
 
I dont know what you mean though. The girls dont go for Rick. It doesnt say anything positive to me that the only time the guy gets lucky is when the chicks around him are drunk.

Kurt is awesome. I would happily date Kurt but, stupid friendship politics, I couldnt because my friend IS actually interested in him. I know because she told me so. So thats that. Also I think he has started seriously dating a chick who is not in our school.
Girls don't generally sleep with guys they don't like. Rick is getting laid. If someone is sharing her lady-bits with a dude, I don't think it's unreasonable to assume she likes the guy. [/QUOTE]

For perspective: I don't hear of too many stories of women getting drunk and nailing the socially awkward fat guy.

Back when I was in the navy and I was on the 'prowl', I would be extremely forward and sexual with my humor. Usually in a group of women at a bar or club, many of them would laugh at my jokes, some would laugh at how much of a clown I was being, and then there'd almost always be the one girl who'd say "Ewww..you're a pig. I would never sleep with a guy like you!" in front of all of her friends.

That would be the girl I'd end up sleeping with, nearly every time.

What a girl says around her girlfriends, and what a girl actually wants aren't always exactly the same thing, either ;)
 
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I'm ignoring the fact that he might be dating someone..

Kurt is awesome. I would happily date Kurt but, stupid friendship politics, I couldnt because my friend IS actually interested in him. I know because she told me so. So thats that.
Wait. So just because she happened to have "staked a claim" first, she gets to go for him instead of you? Is she even actively trying to pursue that fantasy or is it just words to make sure no one else i her friend circle can try by simply saying "dibs!"?
I didn't even catch that. Nice one, Ame :D.[/QUOTE]

If I went after the guy my friend likes that would make me way more of a bitch than I actually am. I am much more interested in keeping my friendship than I am with dating anybody.

And they have told each other they like each other and have like made out and stuff he just put the brakes on it because he is friends with Rick and Rick has decided that she's his without any cause. So if I went after him that would really hurt her and I, shocking I know, do not want to hurt my friend.

And Tin, drunk chicks will sleep with anyone and then they will regret it. It is perfectly possible to have sex with someone you dont even like... multiple times. It is after all just sex. In a world where there are fuck buddies there are also, eh at least im getting laid buddies.
 
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No because my friend actually likes Kurt and Kurt likes her. Unlike in Rick's fantasy where he is telling everyone that she is in love with him and my friend is in a world of wtf.
 
So, Kurt's seeing someone else, MAYBE, he's not going for your friend because some other douchenugget claimed her as his property, and you're not going for Kurt because your friend claimed him as hers?

WHAT THE FUCK?
 
Seems more like some teen-drama TV show bullshit.

If friend has told Kurt she's interested, and he has any reason for not trying get into a relationship with her, it's because he doesn't really want one. If she hasn't told him, then she'd better, and if she doesn't, it's open season. Now, if he's in a serious relationship with someone else, and that's his reason for not being with her, then, well, them's the breaks. Sometimes the one you want to be with is better off with someone else.
 
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