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Anonymous
Anonymous
Hello!
First time caller, long-time listener.
I've been dating a girl for about four months - she's sweet, smart and definitely motivated to get her own life on the line and pursue her dreams. For the most part things have been fantastic and there's not really anything wrong with where we are right now - except one teensy, tiny thing.
She's what you'd call an unemotional girl.
That's not saying she doesn't have emotion - it's that she rarely shows it. It's nothing I didn't know going into this - but I feel like spending time with her has made me more and more needy and I'm really not enjoying that.
I know she's into me. She's said it before and there's a few moments where she'll actually open up and talk to me - she's even cried into me telling me how wonderful I am and that she's never had anyone that's cared for her like this. But then there are times she's almost cold and almost intent on not wanting to look like she's dependent on me and it throws me in some funk.
It's only been four months, I know. But I feel like I'm getting to an age where I should look at relationships on a long-term level instead of just flings. So is this something I should talk to her about? Or is this in the "Man up, get therapy" category of HF problems?
First time caller, long-time listener.
I've been dating a girl for about four months - she's sweet, smart and definitely motivated to get her own life on the line and pursue her dreams. For the most part things have been fantastic and there's not really anything wrong with where we are right now - except one teensy, tiny thing.
She's what you'd call an unemotional girl.
That's not saying she doesn't have emotion - it's that she rarely shows it. It's nothing I didn't know going into this - but I feel like spending time with her has made me more and more needy and I'm really not enjoying that.
I know she's into me. She's said it before and there's a few moments where she'll actually open up and talk to me - she's even cried into me telling me how wonderful I am and that she's never had anyone that's cared for her like this. But then there are times she's almost cold and almost intent on not wanting to look like she's dependent on me and it throws me in some funk.
It's only been four months, I know. But I feel like I'm getting to an age where I should look at relationships on a long-term level instead of just flings. So is this something I should talk to her about? Or is this in the "Man up, get therapy" category of HF problems?