I need Bondage tips. Me and a ladyfriend have tried a little and want to graduate from silk scarves and fuzzy cuffs.
Got any tips for me?
Got any tips for me?
[Other] This is a question for Shego,but the rest can help too.
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Chibibar
well. Have a safe word (seriously)
I think the next level up would be either paddles and cat-0-nine-tails. The trick is to find the "sweet" point between pain and pleasure. Start off slow and build up to it. It is an art really on how you use the tool to exert the maximum pleasure. It all in the wrist and flicker movement. experiment a little but definetly go slow
It is suppose to be fun and pleasurable not painful 
I think the next level up would be either paddles and cat-0-nine-tails. The trick is to find the "sweet" point between pain and pleasure. Start off slow and build up to it. It is an art really on how you use the tool to exert the maximum pleasure. It all in the wrist and flicker movement. experiment a little but definetly go slow
It is suppose to be fun and pleasurable not painful 
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I'd like to buy a tiny brown "O", please.
OK, you are the last person that I suspected to know about this....well. Have a safe word (seriously)
I think the next level up would be either paddles and cat-0-nine-tails. The trick is to find the "sweet" point between pain and pleasure. Start off slow and build up to it. It is an art really on how you use the tool to exert the maximum pleasure. It all in the wrist and flicker movement. experiment a little but definetly go slow
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Chibibar
Heh. I know lots of friends who are into it. So I learn some (even dated a few back in the days)
It's always the nice, quiet ones...
Chibi you dawg.
http://www.comeasyouare.com/default/index.cfm/shop/sex-toys/bondage-toys/
Their bondage tape is fantastic because it truly doesn't hurt when you pull it off afterwards.
If you don't have alot of money to spend, incorporate ice, candle wax (use white candles; I find the coloured ones stain the skin), wooden spoons, bottles, clothespins, all natural feather dusters.
And by the gods, have a safe word, use it, and respect it. Then it's a matter of seeing how many boundaries you want to push.
Now, go have fun, kids.
Their bondage tape is fantastic because it truly doesn't hurt when you pull it off afterwards.
If you don't have alot of money to spend, incorporate ice, candle wax (use white candles; I find the coloured ones stain the skin), wooden spoons, bottles, clothespins, all natural feather dusters.
And by the gods, have a safe word, use it, and respect it. Then it's a matter of seeing how many boundaries you want to push.
Now, go have fun, kids.
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Chibibar
Ice and Wax is a bit advance cause it can cause damage if you are not careful.
Now remember that you have a whole body to work with. Arms, legs, hands, feet, back and chest. It is not limited to erogenous zones.
Of course something simple as pure trust is blindfold with a feather while tied up. It can be scary and exhilarating at the same time. Of course you can use clothespin in the mix.
cause it can cause damage if you are not careful.Now remember that you have a whole body to work with. Arms, legs, hands, feet, back and chest. It is not limited to erogenous zones.
Of course something simple as pure trust is blindfold with a feather while tied up. It can be scary and exhilarating at the same time. Of course you can use clothespin in the mix.
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Chibibar
When I was in Japan for a brief time a friend of mine who was into rope told me all kinds of interesting things you can do. I was..... too educational for my taste.
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Biannoshufu
http://www.amazon.com/Great-books-for-BDSM-beginners/lm/1M4T297MRWOXJ
find these at your local book vendor.
https://fetlife.com/ forums nick and forum pswd req.
What's the reason for wanting to go further? Is it an attempt to increase the perceived danger (thrill)? Or are we talking actual restraint (control/loss thereof)? Isolating that sort of thing might help. It's one thing to say, "I want to really ramp up the fruit flavor," as opposed to, "I really want to bring that pear flavor up front and center."
--Patrick
--Patrick
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makare
Of course you should invest in a good quality Anal Hook.
Link is nsfw
http://www.massachusettsbondage.com/tutorials/Tutorials.html
Link is nsfw
http://www.massachusettsbondage.com/tutorials/Tutorials.html
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makare
If they've already tried some things they probably already got the safeword covered. It's a pretty basic concept.
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Biannoshufu
basic or not, it's a core safety issue when exploring BDSM experiences, and just like always reminded people to buckle up when taking off in a plane, it needs to be repeated each and every time. Don't forget, others might stumble across this thread who have NO BDSM experience, after all.
Generally speaking, it's as has been stated already: go into this with an open mind, find your limits, respect them - once you cross the squick line, it's not going to be fun for either one of you.
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makare
Oh also two words. Home Depot...
just saying.
that could also be your safe word.
just saying.
that could also be your safe word.
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