So, I'm stuck on something. I have this "friend" from high school. I use quotes because I'm 100% certain that if we didn't have a long history I wouldn't give this guy the time of day.
When we first met in high school we were both playing the same sports, were in the same classes, had the same group of friends, and had the same interests (sci-fi movies, anime, video games, etc.) Everything was fine for years, until about halfway through college. Over the last 7 years or so he has gradually alienated all of his friends to the point where I'm the only one left. It's as though he stopped growing up. He still has a juvenile sense of humor, only he's gotten more obnoxious (or maybe it just seems so as I've gotten older). His free time is now completely devoted to video games to the point where it is the only thing he talks about. He has no interests outside of WoW or whatever the latest popular game is for the 360. This means that when we meet up all he wants to talk about is his last raid or the stats for whatever piece of loot he picked up, despite the fact that I know nothing about WoW and don't like it. He's rude, he's not very bright, he's... well, you get the idea. Increasingly I find myself pissed off at things he says or does (such as mooching off me at meals, insulting my friends, talking about women like they're objects, and so on).
I'm tired of it.
Here's my dilemma: what's the right thing to do? Should I ignore his calls and just sever contact? Should I explain to him how I feel and why I don't want to hang out anymore? Should I lie and make up another excuse? Should I just be a nice guy and put up with his antics, even though he pisses me off all the time? I've gotten a different answer from each person I've asked offline, so now I turn to all of you.
When we first met in high school we were both playing the same sports, were in the same classes, had the same group of friends, and had the same interests (sci-fi movies, anime, video games, etc.) Everything was fine for years, until about halfway through college. Over the last 7 years or so he has gradually alienated all of his friends to the point where I'm the only one left. It's as though he stopped growing up. He still has a juvenile sense of humor, only he's gotten more obnoxious (or maybe it just seems so as I've gotten older). His free time is now completely devoted to video games to the point where it is the only thing he talks about. He has no interests outside of WoW or whatever the latest popular game is for the 360. This means that when we meet up all he wants to talk about is his last raid or the stats for whatever piece of loot he picked up, despite the fact that I know nothing about WoW and don't like it. He's rude, he's not very bright, he's... well, you get the idea. Increasingly I find myself pissed off at things he says or does (such as mooching off me at meals, insulting my friends, talking about women like they're objects, and so on).
I'm tired of it.
Here's my dilemma: what's the right thing to do? Should I ignore his calls and just sever contact? Should I explain to him how I feel and why I don't want to hang out anymore? Should I lie and make up another excuse? Should I just be a nice guy and put up with his antics, even though he pisses me off all the time? I've gotten a different answer from each person I've asked offline, so now I turn to all of you.