Meraede said:Massive rant: My husband was on training to go over to Afghanistan for 9 months, was in Afghanistan for 6 months and was posted to another base once he got back.
Yes, I know I can move to where he is but he really wants to come back to this base (where he is massively needed) but the career manager says no. Plus I've got a really good job here that I enjoy. The people (well, most of them) are really great, I don't have to drive 45 minutes to the nearest city to work, and I've got alot of latitude with my job so I can work on my accounting degree while in the office. Frankly, moving and having to look for a new job in the current economic environment scares the crap outta me.
<sigh> We've been married for 4 years and physically together for 2. When do we get to be a family again?
I need a drink.
Not much to talk about, is there?ElJuski said:Thor's Hammer baby yeah okay i'm done talking about my penis to you peopleJake said:The lightning is his penis.
What's there to say? It does its job, and speaks for itselfIaculus said:Not much to talk about, is there?ElJuski said:Thor's Hammer baby yeah okay i'm done talking about my penis to you peopleJake said:The lightning is his penis.
Sad thing is it only speaks when there's another guy in the room. :blargh:ElJuski said:What's there to say? It does its job, and speaks for itselfIaculus said:Not much to talk about, is there?ElJuski said:Thor's Hammer baby yeah okay i'm done talking about my penis to you peopleJake said:The lightning is his penis.
So tell them what it saysCynicismKills said:Sad thing is it only speaks when there's another guy in the room. :blargh:
But that's our little secret.ElJuski said:So tell them what it saysCynicismKills said:Sad thing is it only speaks when there's another guy in the room. :blargh:
/cricketsThe Mike said:I’ve noticed a strange phenomenon and I want to know if it’s me or if it happens to others.
The way I post is I open the active posts to see what is going on, open 4 or 5 threads on different tabs, read the subject and post on each, refresh and respond accordingly, but from time to time I get the feeling I’m either a thread killer or something is wrong, because I am stuck with 4 tabs were nobody is posting after me.
Ever get this feeling?
Is it me?
Helping? hurting or glowing on your popularity?Gusto said:/cricketsThe Mike said:I’ve noticed a strange phenomenon and I want to know if it’s me or if it happens to others.
The way I post is I open the active posts to see what is going on, open 4 or 5 threads on different tabs, read the subject and post on each, refresh and respond accordingly, but from time to time I get the feeling I’m either a thread killer or something is wrong, because I am stuck with 4 tabs were nobody is posting after me.
Ever get this feeling?
Is it me?
Nah just kidding. I used to get that idea too. That mine would be the post that ruined the thread. But that was back in the Halfpixel days when I really didn't think anyone cared what I thought.
It was nice to be brought back to these forums by certain members who wanted me to return. It let me open up a bit, and if I kill a thread, no worries.
Yeah, this. I have too many other tabs open anyways.Bubble181 said:I, for one, ALWAYS have only one tab open on this forum. I always go back and forth to the general forum to see what other threads have moved, who has responded where, etc. While the reaction speed is slightly slower, it enables you to follow more threads - and notice newer threads quicker - than by just opening threads in a new tab.
You only have one tab an yet you post like your life depends on itBubble181 said:Yeah, don't stop posting. I'm pretty sure you'd find I have killed far more threads than you have :-P
Actually, it's just that, with some posters leaving and others joining, depending on the time of day, some threads will gently get lower down on the first page. When you opened it up, it might've been one of the top 4 threads, but for new arrivals, it may have been pushed down to fifth or sixth place, and they miss it.
I, for one, ALWAYS have only one tab open on this forum. I always go back and forth to the general forum to see what other threads have moved, who has responded where, etc. While the reaction speed is slightly slower, it enables you to follow more threads - and notice newer threads quicker - than by just opening threads in a new tab.
The Mike said:You only have one tab an yet you post like your life depends on itBubble181 said:Yeah, don't stop posting. I'm pretty sure you'd find I have killed far more threads than you have :-P
Actually, it's just that, with some posters leaving and others joining, depending on the time of day, some threads will gently get lower down on the first page. When you opened it up, it might've been one of the top 4 threads, but for new arrivals, it may have been pushed down to fifth or sixth place, and they miss it.
I, for one, ALWAYS have only one tab open on this forum. I always go back and forth to the general forum to see what other threads have moved, who has responded where, etc. While the reaction speed is slightly slower, it enables you to follow more threads - and notice newer threads quicker - than by just opening threads in a new tab.
Very little secret.CynicismKills said:But that's our little secret.ElJuski said:So tell them what it saysCynicismKills said:Sad thing is it only speaks when there's another guy in the room. :blargh:
I totally used to feel this way. When I first started posting on HP, I was half afraid of being run out by foaming-at-the-mouth, vicious trolls... but that's just because I've had terrible forum experiences before this. I like it here. ^_^ And if you don't care what I have to say... well, too bad. I'm posting anyway!Gusto said:/cricketsThe Mike said:I’ve noticed a strange phenomenon and I want to know if it’s me or if it happens to others.
The way I post is I open the active posts to see what is going on, open 4 or 5 threads on different tabs, read the subject and post on each, refresh and respond accordingly, but from time to time I get the feeling I’m either a thread killer or something is wrong, because I am stuck with 4 tabs were nobody is posting after me.
Ever get this feeling?
Is it me?
Nah just kidding. I used to get that idea too. That mine would be the post that ruined the thread. But that was back in the Halfpixel days when I really didn't think anyone cared what I thought.
It was nice to be brought back to these forums by certain members who wanted me to return. It let me open up a bit, and if I kill a thread, no worries.
Eh, I do my best but for some reason no one ever takes the bait around here. So instead of a forum filled with vicious trolls you get fluffy little ones instead.Cajungal said:I totally used to feel this way. When I first started posting on HP, I was half afraid of being run out by foaming-at-the-mouth, vicious trolls...
A pick axe?!? Did you find any Thorium ore while you were at it?HCGLNS said:RANT: Lousy Smarch weather! 2 hours of using a pick axe to free up the mountain of ice on my driveway and I am only 1/3 finished.
You know, I get the exact same feeling. I'd post something and then the thread would drop like a stone.Gusto said:/cricketsThe Mike said:I’ve noticed a strange phenomenon and I want to know if it’s me or if it happens to others.
The way I post is I open the active posts to see what is going on, open 4 or 5 threads on different tabs, read the subject and post on each, refresh and respond accordingly, but from time to time I get the feeling I’m either a thread killer or something is wrong, because I am stuck with 4 tabs were nobody is posting after me.
Ever get this feeling?
Is it me?
Nah just kidding. I used to get that idea too. That mine would be the post that ruined the thread. But that was back in the Halfpixel days when I really didn't think anyone cared what I thought.
It was nice to be brought back to these forums by certain members who wanted me to return. It let me open up a bit, and if I kill a thread, no worries.
:tear:ElJuski said:Man I had all these bits of conversation lined up but after Chakz posted....yeah I got nothing.
THANKS. :humph:
You should have no issues now. Are you still getting an error?Shannow said:Stupid IP ban :angry:
Is this a dramatic departure? You might need to talk to him when he's in a calm & good mood (like after nookie) and ask him if there's something else going on like additional stress. Or he may need to see a doctor for something neurological.LittleSin said:Argh! My husbands temper is getting worst and it's making me me so depressed and angry! He will literally freak out about the smallest thing and start throwing books or chairs around and then shout at me if I tell him to calm down or to stop destroying my shit!
His gamer rage has reached new limits. Get shot once? Hell! I'll throw my wallet at the wall and leave a huge dent! He won't eat anything that is cooked for him because it's not he wanted despite the fact I ask him what he want and he says "I don't care" or I'll tell him what I want to cook he'll say "sure' then have a fit when he doesn't like it.
It's just...just....so mind numbing. It feels like everything is my fault.
I'm going to agree there, I know my dad has the random snaps like that when he's stressed too. Hope you can get him to talk to you and calm down.Gusto said:Mr. Sin has the Stress.