Let me head this off: no, I am not suicidal - I have been, I probably will be again some day, but I am not at this time.
If you can't handle talk about suicide, or if you don't want to read depressing/whining things, I should recommend that you stop reading here. This whole little babbling piece is quite focussed on death and its inevitability - and my cold terror of meaninglessness. Just... so you know.
Also this is rhetorical: I realise the questions I ask often have no answers, and no answers to any questions herein are expected/wanted - though feel free to chime if you like. I need to get a little of this out of my system, though it's hardly all of it, nor is it even complete or explained to my satisfaction. But my head is overflowing, and I need to let some out, I guess.
I see no purpose in doing anything. I realise this seems like a childish point of view, that I don't want to do anything because in the end I'll be dead. But I cannot escape that truth.
And indeed, others counter with "What about the people you love? Who love you? What about those you affect after you're dead, maybe by having written something or caused someone to pass on some bit of knowledge..." but the point, I guess, the larger point that I cannot flee from is that it isn't just me that will die, but them to, and those who benefit from them, and one day, there will be nothing.
Life is a lot of irritation, stress, pain, sadness, regret, frustration, impotence, anger, misery... With moments, too, of joy, awe, laughter, contentment. And I don't know which happens more frequently, nor which is more weighty. I suspect, but I have no clear mind to give rational expression to this, that there are more and weightier painful moments in life.
Regardless of the reality, I certainly suffer the negative side of life more acutely and for longer than I enjoy the positive side of it.
I cannot see to fix this: I haven't known anyone to understand precisely what I mean or feel, and I'm also not sure I would want someone to feel this way: it's horrifying.
The conclusion I come to, time and again is that if I am unhappy, and cannot see good reason to exerting effort to becoming happy, then suicide is simply the obvious choice. They say it is not a solution, but to this problem, it is the only solution. As I said, I am not suicidal, though there's a morbid itch in my mind that believes I would happily welcome a fatal accident while walking home or a sudden burst of an embolism in my brain.
I have no hope. Even if life gets better -and what would that mean?- it will not matter. No one will matter. The end of the universe is inevitable, so what's the meaning of my enjoyment? Even if I could, in the next second, start having a crazy perfect and fun life of my dreams, that enjoyment ceases. And since that is not possible, then why not simply stop the suffering and enjoyment altogether? Particularly since I suffer far more than I enjoy?
This is, as I said, not something I think is answerable, I don't mean to pose these questions to any of you. Should you feel like saying something, endeavouring to answer a question, or just talk, I welcome insight, opinion, criticism of my weltanschauung, etc.
If you can't handle talk about suicide, or if you don't want to read depressing/whining things, I should recommend that you stop reading here. This whole little babbling piece is quite focussed on death and its inevitability - and my cold terror of meaninglessness. Just... so you know.
Also this is rhetorical: I realise the questions I ask often have no answers, and no answers to any questions herein are expected/wanted - though feel free to chime if you like. I need to get a little of this out of my system, though it's hardly all of it, nor is it even complete or explained to my satisfaction. But my head is overflowing, and I need to let some out, I guess.
I see no purpose in doing anything. I realise this seems like a childish point of view, that I don't want to do anything because in the end I'll be dead. But I cannot escape that truth.
And indeed, others counter with "What about the people you love? Who love you? What about those you affect after you're dead, maybe by having written something or caused someone to pass on some bit of knowledge..." but the point, I guess, the larger point that I cannot flee from is that it isn't just me that will die, but them to, and those who benefit from them, and one day, there will be nothing.
Life is a lot of irritation, stress, pain, sadness, regret, frustration, impotence, anger, misery... With moments, too, of joy, awe, laughter, contentment. And I don't know which happens more frequently, nor which is more weighty. I suspect, but I have no clear mind to give rational expression to this, that there are more and weightier painful moments in life.
Regardless of the reality, I certainly suffer the negative side of life more acutely and for longer than I enjoy the positive side of it.
I cannot see to fix this: I haven't known anyone to understand precisely what I mean or feel, and I'm also not sure I would want someone to feel this way: it's horrifying.
The conclusion I come to, time and again is that if I am unhappy, and cannot see good reason to exerting effort to becoming happy, then suicide is simply the obvious choice. They say it is not a solution, but to this problem, it is the only solution. As I said, I am not suicidal, though there's a morbid itch in my mind that believes I would happily welcome a fatal accident while walking home or a sudden burst of an embolism in my brain.
I have no hope. Even if life gets better -and what would that mean?- it will not matter. No one will matter. The end of the universe is inevitable, so what's the meaning of my enjoyment? Even if I could, in the next second, start having a crazy perfect and fun life of my dreams, that enjoyment ceases. And since that is not possible, then why not simply stop the suffering and enjoyment altogether? Particularly since I suffer far more than I enjoy?
This is, as I said, not something I think is answerable, I don't mean to pose these questions to any of you. Should you feel like saying something, endeavouring to answer a question, or just talk, I welcome insight, opinion, criticism of my weltanschauung, etc.